Are you stuck in a rut and wanting to lose weight for your health and wellbeing?

This might be helpful to some of you especially if you’re worried about how, when and if you’ll succeed.

A lifestyle change may be required and that starts with taking a good look at yourself and your behaviours.

We all love food, we all crave comfort and we all hate change. We’re human.

What’s the best Diet?

The best diet is the one you can stick to.

What’s the best Exercise?

The best exercise is the activity/activities you can incorporate into your life and stick to.

You have a body. You may like it or hate it, but it’s yours for the rest of your life.

Can you change? Absolutely, Yes!

It’s so so scary to opt for change, it’s something new, it’s delving into the unknown, it’s moving away from your comfort zone and yes it’s scary. Our bodies are naturally and evolutionary hard wired for comfort and the status quo but you can alter it if you try!

These steps below may help.

  • Self Awareness. It’s a process that begins with being aware. This may seem obvious, but it isn’t and it can be extremely difficult for some. If you’re used to blaming or finding excuses, then you’re sadly not aware. How are you going to change anything if you won’t own up to how you’re thinking and behaving. (You’ve got to take a really good look and it’s going to be uncomfortable).
  • Start off Slowly.  This is so important. Try not to expect change to happen overnight. Practice, practise, practice is the key. When we continually practice something then we eventually become better at it, so much so that it then becomes a habit.
  • Be Realistic with your goals, unrealistic goals can create fear and failure. Small achievable goals are productive and can help you stay motivated.
  • Be Positive, by introducing positivity and being conscious of any negative self talk or negativity from others can help. Rewarding yourself after small accomplishments has been shown to help with enjoying the process and therefore succeeding.
  • Learn from your mistakes and take it as a positive lesson on how you can limit a repeat of the same or similar mistake again. We all make mistakes and it’s not the end of the world when you do
  • Be Mindful, mindful when food shopping, mindful of how you cook, mindful of how you eat, mindful of how much exercise you do, mindful of what triggers you know aren’t going to help. Generally being mindful daily.

You can change! It starts with taking an honest good look at the behaviours and lifestyle you’re leading. If you want it you can have it. Don’t give up!

If you can keep it up for 66 days, you may well be on your way to succeeding! European Journal of Social Psychology.

If it doesn’t challenge you, it won’t change you.

It never get’s easier, you just get better.

Every failure is a lesson, if you’re not willing to fail, you’re not ready to succeed.

If the plan doesn’t work, change the plan but never the goal.

This is a 12 week Fat Loss programme for women. Consisting of a group training session combined with two 1-1 sessions in your home/area (indoors or out) or another location discussed at consultation.

This programme is for those of you who are currently in generally good health but want to lose fat for increased health and or body compositional changes.

I will plan a personalised programme that considers the following:

  • Current activity levels
  • Current nutritional choices
  • Lifestyle history
  • Menstrual cycle
  • Personal Goals
  • Habits, behaviours and barriers

This will be a partnership of us working together consistently over the 12 weeks for your desired goal.

I will provide you with unlimited support, a programme specifically for you, a friendly and professional approach getting you to where you want to go.

A consultation is required for taking the first step in gaining an understanding of your suitability for this programme.

The price is for:

Two 1-1 sessions and one group session each week.

Full Cost is £700.00 for the 12 weeks or 3 payments of £250.00.

This is a programme with a minimum of 3 sessions each week to help you get into the habit of regular physical activity which will be progressive, enjoyable and challenging.

Contact me here for more information, the payment options or any questions you may have.


I think goals are very important. One of the first things I ask prospective clients is what is that they want to achieve.

Goals can be broken down into more specific, manageable and smaller goals, that can help motivate and lead us into new habits over time and eventually success!


Try to make increasing your activity levels an important part of your routine.

Spending an hour exercising when you may be sitting down the rest of the day won’t be optimal! Try to keep it a top priority and look to self assess how active you are throughout the day.

Self assess and monitor what it is that’s getting in the way.

These seem to be the most popular barriers when it comes to keeping on track and by no means the only ones:

Time – What time can you give to being active throughout the day? Could you focus on introducing any of these examples:

  • Walking to work, the shops, school etc
  • Parking the car further away from your destination and walking the remaining.
  • Taking the stairs instead of the lift.
  • Breaking your sitting time at work eg stand when talking on the phone, take regular breaks from sitting such as a simple timer or alert to take a walk around the office.

You can find the time!

Food choices – Deep down you will already know what’s contributing and getting in the way. Be honest with yourself and start to make different choices. You don’t need to stop eating the foods you enjoy, you can just refresh your current choices. Equally be honest with me as your potential coach, I’m not here to judge, I help you look at what it is that triggers these choices and how best you could manage them. Is it stress related, a habit, an emotional or environmental factor?

Seek support from those who can help you.

Friends and family that will be positive and maybe even join you on your journey but equally don’t be afraid to go it alone.

Try and stay away from Negativity.

The people who maybe don’t understand, or the environments you frequent that can harm your progress.

Keep going!

With all the will in the world you will possibly make mistakes, events will come up where even with the best intentions you may find it a struggle. I help you to see them not as mistakes just lessons that you can learn from.

Be Patient!

Possibly one of the hardest goals to follow through. If you can be patient and realise that it takes time to adjust to anything new and implement the above then you’ll be on the road to having a much more enjoyable journey!

I focus on helping women to achieve their goals and enjoy the process. A lifestyle change that can be sustained and maintained!

Message me if you’d like some help.

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Tuesday 24th/Thursday 26th July 7.30pm for 6 weeks.


Alrewas Show Field.

How long for?

6 weeks with a choice of 6 – 12 sessions or PAYG.


£35.00 for 6 sessions (+ £5 per extra session).

£55.00 for 12 sessions

(Choose either Tuesday and/or Thursday, mix and match available)

What’s Mix and Match?

If you opt for 6 sessions but can only make 4 Tuesdays, you can opt for mixing in 2 Thursday sessions.

You can book extra sessions at £5 per session.

(PAYG is available at £6 per session, subject to availability and 24hrs notice, pay on the night).

How to book?

You can book and pay securely through the PayPal option below.

If you’re opting for more than 6 but less than 12 just add on any extra sessions at £5 and use ‘other amount’

If you’re not sure message me

e.g Jane can make 8 sessions of 2 Tuesdays and 6 Thursdays = total cost of £45

Fradley Fit
Other Amount:

You can TRACK your PROGRESS, ACHIEVEMENTS and FITNESS JOURNEY with my online App included with the package.

You get ‘access’ to my online app to:

✅Log all your workouts including Gym, Yoga, Pilates, Zumba, Combat, Pump, Spin classes, running, walking and much more.

✅Log nutrition and use the handy Bar code scanner.

✅Upload progress photos.

✅Add body measurements and blood pressure.

✅Upload your weight.

✅Integrate the app with your ‘Fitbit’

Energy in vs. Energy out!! Simple? No, not entirely!

To achieve weight loss we all know that we must tip the balance with either energy in, energy out or a mixture of both.

What happens to the body when we take less calories in. We lose weight and we know this because the scales say so. What you see on the scales though is a combination of water, muscle, fat and glycogen (stored energy). There is no way of knowing accurately from the scales what you have lost or in some instances gained or why the scales haven’t budged at all.

It could be a number of things but individual days of weight on the scale are mostly irrelevant as daily fluctuations can be huge especially for the changes that occur in the average females menstrual cycle. It might be beneficial to record your readings, take an average of your scale weight over time and include body measurements.

Example of weight loss from the scales

2lbs of water loss + 2lbs of fat loss = 4lbs scale weight loss.

2lbs retention in water + 2lb fat loss = No scale weight change.

We all know that an extreme caloric deficit is not a nice experience for the vast majority of us and evidence and experience tells us that it’s not sustainable in the long term either.

If you want to lose weight by just eating less. Yes, You might lose weight but you’ll also be losing muscle, water and glycogen stores. This can lead to a large majority of women eventually putting it all back on if it’s not maintained. Evidence and experience points us to this.

So what about Fat Loss the extra stored fat that the body could do without. Fat loss is exactly that, not muscle, not water and not glycogen. (although not entirely true a small amount of these can still be lost but not to the detriment of your metabolism).

How to achieve fat loss? 

Firstly be mindful of not restricting your energy requirements drastically (you do still need to be in a deficit to lose fat but the extremity and the nutritional choices you make as well as the behaviours surrounding your choices will determine the outcome). If you approach diet and exercise with extremes it won’t be sustainable.

You could Consider the following:

The types of foods you’re consuming.

The International Society of Sports Nutrition (ISSN) recently published their position stand on protein and exercise.

For weight management your protein requirements may need to exceed the current RNI. It may be advantageous to consume a higher protein diet of 1.8g per kg of body weight throughout the day with a moderate calorie restriction of 500kcal.  Ensuring slow and steady weight loss whilst preserving lean muscle mass.

The type of physical activity you do.

Resistance training gradually included into your weekly activities and the inclusion of an increase in the amount of protein consumed is shown to be the most successful method. It’s important to note that the activities you perform would need to be progressive and sustainable for the long term.

Resistance training is any activity that causes the muscles to contract against an external resistance this can be dumbbells, rubber bands, your own body weight, bottles of water, or any other object that causes the muscles to contract.

If you fuel the body with what it needs in terms of your health and having the energy to take part in physical activity over the long term, it becomes easier. You’ll start to establish new eating behaviours and patterns and by being flexible and realising that all foods can be incorporated into a fat loss or weight loss goal, it becomes easier to maintain.

The best approach to fat loss is to increase your activity levels wisely, include resistance training, higher protein, eat mindfully and reduce your calories moderately with inclusions of the foods you enjoy (a well balanced diet). This approach takes a little more care but you’ll be keeping your:

  • Blood sugar stable
  • Metabolism balanced
  • Hormones in check
  • Hunger limited
  • Energy raised
  • Cravings reduced
  • Fat stores can be lost and sustained
  • Lean muscle mass preserved or increased
  • Weight loss can be achieved and maintained

A healthier and Happier you!

Note – Fat loss can also achieve weight loss if that’s your goal. The first step is to realise that fat loss is a long term process.

If you need help or guidance, I’d love to hear from you or follow me!


ISSN Position Stand on Protein

Training must progress or your body has no reason to adapt.

If you are trying to get fit, seek general health and fitness, want to lose weight and fat or have an event to compete in. Whether you’re a beginner, intermediate or advanced, training must progress.

  • Frequency – How many times a week
  • Intensity – How hard the sessions are
  • Time – How much time spent
  • Type – What type of activity


It’s important to start slowly and build up gradually. In the early stages this not only avoids the potential for excessive stress on the body which can result in injury but it also helps you stick with it.

As your fitness improves usually in the first 8-12 weeks, you are becoming more flexible, technique is improving along with your balance. (Training may extend beyond this as a beginner if you are extremely unfit).

The type of activity you pursue is not as important as the frequency, intensity and time spent. It’s best to find something you enjoy to do and can do consistently.
3 days of 20-30 mins is sufficient each week to start with. An aerobic activity that’s moderate but challenging and includes on at least 2 of the days some resistance training.


The recommended amount for general health and fitness is 150 mins of moderate exercise or 75 mins of vigorous, a combination of both which includes 2 days of resistance/strength training each week.

Again like a beginner it’s best to find something you enjoy and can fit into your Week, you can look closer at the types of exercises best suited to your increase in frequency, intensity and time.

Adherence and consistency will be a major factor in your quest for general health and fitness and you may find yourself going back and forth from beginner to intermediate now and then (in this instance you will already have a better understanding and can progress again from beginner to more moderate activity levels in less time).

It’s more than likely to stay consistent if it’s something you enjoy and can fit in to your life.

This can also be a time when you may feel like you’d like to challenge yourself and increase your activity levels to a more advanced training schedule.


This type of training requires a considerable but gradual and progressive increase in frequency, intensity and time. Varying hugely in the type of activities undertaken and depending greatly on the goal you have such as an event to train for, a competition or aesthetic aspirations.

In Summary

If you are looking to progress or even just maintain your fitness levels, it still needs to be progressive, monitored and adapted when necessary.

I’m sure you’d all agree that it goes without saying that how you fuel your body will also have a huge impact on how your body responds to any attempts of adaption especially if you are seeking a more healthy weight or desire something else.

If you think you need any guidance, I’m here to help.



If you’re not seeing results, it’s time to reassess and not give up!

Here’s some reasons why you might not be seeing the results you’d hope’d for.

1. You could have reduced spontaneous activity your NEAT (you moved less after exercising).

2. You subconsciously ate more to compensate for the extra activity (this happens).

3. You’re trying too hard – if you’ve combined extra activity with a diet that’s restricting your calorie intake severely your metabolism will slow down causing your body to use muscle for energy. The lower your muscle mass the slower your metabolism.

4. You’re not fuelling the body. You need to fuel the body appropriately with fat, carbs and protein. A well balanced diet and portion control will provide you with this.

5. You’re rewarding yourself consciously or subconsciously with food or rest after a hard and challenging session. (this happens a lot, see note 2 and 3).

6. You could have fallen into the all or nothing scenario. Setting yourself up to do too much and having high expectations.

Firstly consider how you’re assessing your results, do you have a plan, do you have small achievable goals that you can monitor, how are you monitoring them.

Don’t give up, reassess your goals. Be aware of your activity levels and nutrition. Make small changes if needed. Give it time, it might take longer than you think. The extremity of anything will always determine the outcome.

Be patient! You will get there! 💕👍



IMG_3716New Years resolutions have been given a lot of bad press over the years, because most people find them difficult to stick to and apparently fail from setting high expectations and unrealistic goals. A New Year’s resolution is a tradition in which a person decides to change an undesired trait or behavior, to accomplish a personal goal or to improve their life.

For most the New Year is a chance to reflect over the past and often a chance of a fresh start.

Those of you who’d like to accomplish a personal goal I’m sure you already know what you must do, you’ve possibly been thinking about it for a very long time and are hesitating from doing so, waiting for the write time.

There is absolutely no reason to stop yourself from starting now or at any other time in your life.

Here’s some tips that can help you succeed and ultimately kick the ass out of those doubters including yourself.

PLAN – If you have a goal, what is it, what are you going to do and how are you going to achieve it. Write it down.

Without a plan are you just bumbling along, hoping for the best. Would you run a marathon, cook a new meal or teach a child to read without a plan?

LITTLE THINGS – It’s about the little things, the small changes you can make which may seem insignificant and boring, the new realistic habits you can form from these little things can have a huge impact.

DISCIPLINE – The desire to commit to never giving up. Making your goal a Top Priority. Implementing and following your plan.

LEARN – You will make mistakes and you will fail, everyone does. Those who succeed don’t let fear or failure get in the way. They don’t quit!

Learn from your mistakes because they will make you stronger.

CONSISTENCY – Keep trying daily, not just mon, tues, wed but every day.

IGNORE DISTRACTIONS – You will experience doubters and negativity from others in your desire for success. These are the situations that will harm you and you should try to avoid them or at the least ignore them and that includes social media and media of any kind where negativity is promoted. Choose to surround yourself with positivity.

DAILY – First thing in the morning and last thing at night take a little time just for you to visualise, affirm and remember your goals. Forget all the distractions for that moment. It’s important!

PATIENCE – Know that it takes time and hard work but equally know that by implementing the above, PLAN, LITTLE THINGS, DISCIPLINE, LEARN, CONSISTENCY and DAILY you can SUCCEED!

You have the power to choose and make the changes needed. The choices you make now and each day thereafter will ultimately help you with whatever goal you have.



Is food the obstacle that’s stopping you reach your goal or could it be your relationship with food?

Have you thought about how you rate your relationship with food in general.

Is it high or low?

Do any of these resonate with you?

  • Stressed or anxious around food.
  • Labelling food as good, bad, clean, dirty, naughty, nice.
  • Feeling the need to punish yourself with exercise or to earn food from it.
  • Skipping meals to make up.
  • Strict dieting with not much flexibility and or removing whole food groups.
  • Choosing diet versions all the time.

If the answers yes, maybe it’s time to look a little closer, especially if you’re stuck in the diet cycle and want to get off!

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